Tag: humans
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Love and Nurture
It’s often said that one shouldn’t speak about children and raising them unless they have had children of their own to raise. And yes, I absolutely believe that. I know nothing about raising one but I know a few things about being raised. Today I randomly came across a conversation between TD Jakes and Steve…
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Holding the relatable story
It’s quite easy Everytime someone listens to another person tell their story, their experience to immediately think: “I know what you’re talking about. I’ve been through that. I have a relatable experience. “ The thing is though, that you haven’t listened to their story and much as it may have similarity(ies) to yours, this is…
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If you have one side of the story, you might be hurting someone on the other side of that story.
The other day I watched a video of someone trashing their partner and saying how this person was a terrible person, a bad mother, a bad wife, he was crying and shedding serious tears. This is a calm person unlike his partner in question who is a vibrant personality, sometimes controversial in her sense of…
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She;
She that bears a golden heart Maternal sisterly and friendly Nuturing, protective and edifying Loving , kind and self-giving Reliable, selfless and altruistic. My mother dear See, she… Gives and gives of herself From the heart to the hands From her hands to the world She is a teacher, a nurse, carer A mother, a…
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Believe them.
When someone shows you who they are believe them. Like the good old saying goes, “Actions speak louder than words” they say. If someone is blunt enough to tell you the truth or if you are able to listen to what they are saying with their words and what’s being implied or not said, also…
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Cultivate good habits.
Our thoughts influence ur actions, our actions repeated become our habits. We become our habits. When a muscle or a group of muscles is held in a particular position, they assume the shape, length and position that they are held in. That’s what our habits do. Today I choose to cultivate good habits. Simply taking…
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Meaningful Conversation
I have this friend who has taught me what it means by conversation. She has very strong opinions and I too have very strong opinions. We agree on principle and mostly disagree when it comes to context. We have lots of conversations about so many things ranging from Spirituality (Faith/God), relationships, family, work, career, cultures,…
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Speak courage to yourself.
You might feel like everything is falling apart. Sometimes the burden you bear may feel like you are walking around carrying a giant tumor. No, you won’t crumble. You are stronger than you know. Let your underestimation fill your determination. Don’t listen to the voices that echo your limitedness but rather look at the qualities…
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Stay at it…
Keep working on your craft and be the master of it. It really is easy to give up on something when we work on it for long. If in your heart you know that you’re on a course that you have chosen to lead you towards your goal, don’t just give up. Learn, unlearn, relearn.…
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Conversation with people.
The art of communicating verbally to each other by all means surpasses all kinds of study we could ever do about people, culture, beliefs, anything at all. The best way to know anyone at all is to come up close. The best way to educate oneself about others and deal with our ignorance is to…