Tag: love
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Believe them.
When someone shows you who they are believe them. Like the good old saying goes, “Actions speak louder than words” they say. If someone is blunt enough to tell you the truth or if you are able to listen to what they are saying with their words and what’s being implied or not said, also…
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Love begins with one person just showing it
It’s like they say; ” The world is full of kind people. If you can’t find one be one.” Many times the excuse we have for falling short of love is that other people are nasty and undeserving. It is very easy to find fault when you go looking for it. It is equally possible…
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Meaningful Conversation
I have this friend who has taught me what it means by conversation. She has very strong opinions and I too have very strong opinions. We agree on principle and mostly disagree when it comes to context. We have lots of conversations about so many things ranging from Spirituality (Faith/God), relationships, family, work, career, cultures,…
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Time a healer of all wounds ?
This is a common cliche. We tell our friends, family, the general universal population that in due time their wounds will heal. Today I am thinking that this phenomenon is in itself flawed. Time can not be an independent healing factor. Healing of tissues comes with fibrosis in which case scar(s) are formed. Some scars…
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Flowers in my heart.
For every person you show love, it’s like planting a flower in their heart. The purity of love blossoms and brings sweet fragrance to one’s surroundings and to the rest of the world. It’s no wonder Jesus says love one another as I have loved you. One can only love another and another until the…
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Letting go and moving on.
People are more afraid of moving on than they are of letting go. We have heard this said many times: you need to let go. In most cases the people being told to let go have the knowledge and conviction of why they need to do it or better still why the must let go.…
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Oh, how I love Sunsets .
Whichever place I go to, no matter What’s going on, sunsets always fascinate me. Take an example of this picture; I was in a place mentally, spiritually and physically that I do not appreciate so much and really honestly don’t want to be anymore but when I looked up at that orange sky, I forgot…
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You matter. I matter. We matter.
If we all put the goodness in use; that acquired by nature as human beings and everything we have learnt through nurture we shall realise that we are all an important part of the world. It’s like a symphony in which everyone finds their part and when we all play it right we create a…
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Act on your love
Express your love and compassion towards those you intend to. Let your positive emotion be compelled into motion. Tell your people you love them, don’t leave them guessing. Share your time and resources with those in need. Good wishes do work but a physical helping hand goes a long way and sometimes that’s what people…
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Children are the future.
I sometimes lose hope looking at the state of the world and seeing so much negativity, anger and hatred. I have seen a number of peope who have decided that they won’t bring children into such a world. I know though that when we look around intently we shall find so much good going on,…
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Everybody needs somebody.
Somebody who is your person. To the world you may be one person but to one person you can be the world. They are lucky who find someone like this in their lifetime. Their person. This is extremely special and would be the best experience in any human lifetime. Think about having someone in your…
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Hold out for love
I totally pulled this off of Facebook. Makes lots of sense. You can’t blame me. Am a sucker for love.
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Happy alone ?
What I mean is I am comfortable , confident and stable. I love so deeply and so tenderly I give everything there is in my heart to give And that is scary Because I don’t know about others. It is stable on this ground. So, what I mean by I am happy alone is that…
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Come to the Father.
I landed on this very straight forward very nice piece on Facebook and couldn’t help thinking this should be the attitude of every Christian in every church. When we become so self righteous that we don’t recognize our sons, we become unwelcoming to people who are in places where we ourselves could have been save…
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Hurt is hurt
It is true that no one can tell the extent and the depth of someone’s pain until or unless you have walked in their shoes as that person. In other words, even if you walked in their shoes, unless you are that person you can not fully comprehend how someone hurts and how much they…
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#1 “Why are you coming out now ?”
This question has a certain tone of animosity to it. It is void of basic human compassion . I mean especially for the people who use this statement to say: ” If you were raped 5, 10 years ago you should have spoken then. If you stayed in an abusive relationship it probably didn’t hurt…
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Allow yourself to feel what you’re feeling.
Being human is not about feeling happy all the time. It’s about feeling everything. However you feel is the right way because there is no right way to feel; only a right way to respond, behave and carry yourself. Should you even feel a lot of things at the same time, it’s okay. I have…